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The transition to blogging is a struggle, I often type things but never post them as I tend to be a very blunt and honest writer. However today I bite the bullet and share my thoughts on one of my most enjoyed past times, reading Cosmo's sex/quiz sections lol. Enjoy.
I love a good quiz. So I'm reading December's Cosmopolitan Magazine and wondering how one is supposed to answer these questions in the new Sex quiz. So example, here's a round I could not get a score on. What do your fantasies say about you? Tick every mental image that sparks off an idea for an exciting sexy scenario you've had or would like to have. Seems simple right? Well the idea is that there are 3 coloured symbols next to the 'imagery' and that the symbol you get most is your main sexual focus.
Here we go with the imagery,
An open bedroom door (Imagining the room and guy that lies waiting for me)
A present tied with a pretty bow (This reminds me of my Christmas in a ski-lodge fantasy)
A candle dripping wax (Like a sexy scene from an old movie I wasn't supposed to watch)
A man getting onto a train (I've read 3 books with similar outcomes to this)
A football match (Men getting hot and sweaty and clearly like a bit of rough, need I say more?)
A melting ice cube (Flashback to a guy running them down the back of my neck one broiling summer)
A starry night (Sex under the stars, great fantasy, not so much in reality but I can still keep the dream lol)
Flower petals (Classic romanticised setting, rose petals and silk sheets)
A policewoman (Thinking of my own sexy costume and how men react when I wear it)
So what does it say about a girl who can turn all of these into a sexual fantasy without thinking? Eventually I struggle through the rest of the quiz to end up with a result, though how much u can trust it with only a few symbols in your corner I don't know. According to Cosmo, due to the fact that I decorate in a cluttered style with pillows, throws and precious collected items, that I enjoy good food and lying in the sun with friends and sipping cocktails, I'm a Sensual Siren. Which is a nice image in itself. Neither is the part that says to most guys I know, I'm the sexist woman they've met, which I'm rather confident of anyway. However the impression that I need to have more confidence and their tips on spicing up my sex life bore me. I feel like I'm tired of reading the same things. I've done it, tried it, and I want more. I may not be quite at the 'fearless female' level, I hole some things back and I guard my emotions rather closely. But there are aspects of this characterised woman that I relate more to. So I may not be the adrenaline junkie who needs to set some time aside for slower more sensual encounters, but I like my sex like the men I choose fast and hard. I don't have much patience for slow and loving. Maybe its part of my fear of intimacy, which sounds odd as I'm such a sexual creature but really I can define the difference between sexual intimacy and emotional. That being said the long loving sex that so man women crave is the quickest way to put me off a partner I'm genuinely interested in. My biggest hate is they guy who treats you like a china doll, like he could break you. I find it infuriating, its like I'm not fragile dammit. I want some of that spark, that primal human instinct that attracts us to our lovers to start with.